RELATIONSHIP COACHING WITH AARON KINGStop abandoning yourself to be loved.
Something keeps repeating. You may understand the pattern and still find yourself over-explaining, appeasing, controlling, shutting down or disappearing when connection feels threatened.
Let’s understand what keeps taking over - and begin creating relationships where you can remain fully yourself.
A private 30-minute conversation about where you are, what keeps repeating and whether this work - and working with me - feels like the right fit.
Relationship King means sovereignty - not domination.
It is the ability to remain openhearted without surrendering your voice, boundaries, desires or authority over your own life.
Over six or twelve months, we uncover the patterns running your relationships, reclaim the parts of yourself you learned to suppress and practice responding from self-trust instead of fear. The result is not perfect relationships. It is the ability to speak honestly, choose consciously, repair when possible and stop disappearing to preserve connection.
I came to this work the hard way.
I’m Aaron King, a Jungian relationship coach helping people recognize the patterns that make them overfunction, react, appease, control, or disappear to stay connected.
Rehab saved my life. Therapy helped me function. Recovery gave me structure. But Jungian shadow work helped me face what still took over when I was triggered—and reclaim the parts of myself I had learned to abandon.
Before coaching, I spent more than 30 years helping organizations clarify who they were. Now I help people reclaim the voice, boundaries, desires, and authority they learned to trade for love, approval, or safety.
3 MINUTES WITH COACH KINGRecognizing the pattern is one thing. Interrupting what keeps pulling you back into it is another. Let me show you what I mean.
You said “never again.” Again.
What People Are Saying
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Aaron helped me understand and positively impact so many of the headaches & heartaches that plagued my external relationships by guiding me on a journey inward.
- Todd S.
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Aaron is the real deal. He is intuitive and clever, a good listener, and shares keen insights... He knows when to dig deeper and challenge me, and knows when to let silence speak.
- Bruce H.
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Aaron not only listens, he cares! He is engaging and uses his own personal experiences to be helpful. I never feel rushed or pressured, and Aaron’s coaching is well thought, relative and professional.
- Robbie P
Not ready to talk yet? Start with three minutes.
Before you text back, over-explain, appease, shut down, or explode, take three minutes to come back to yourself.
The free Relationship Self-Rule Reset is a short guided practice for interrupting the reaction, hearing your own voice, and choosing what happens next.
No homework. No philosophy lesson. Just a way to return to yourself when the relationship feels louder than you are.